So over 28 years ago I had made some bad choices. I had been raped and I knew I wasn’t a virgin any more, I felt like I didn’t have anything to offer a husband, and the guy I thought was really interested in me that I cared about didn’t and cheated on me and ect. I was young and nieve no one knew I had been raped. I finally got tired of being made a fool of and gbroke it off with him he kept calling and being agervating I had made a couple more mistakes that just added to the fire of making me feel even worse. so when I was least expecting it happened a guy that I liked that I knew already. He had always been interested in me and we finally got together but when he found out I wasn’t a virgin and I hadn’t been honest with him over my bad choices ect we have struggled in our marriage ever sense I have hurt him and I don’t know if it’s the rape that has messed with my head or if I was scared he was going to hurt me like the other guys. I had some guys that wouldn’t date me when they found out I wouldn’t put out. So my marriage and me and my husband needs prayers for healing. He said if he knew for sure I wasn’t a virgin he wouldn’t have ever got involved with me that the old testament stands that because I didn’t bleed that I didn’t bring sanctity to our marriage. I was like we both was supposed to be pure and I knew he hadn’t been pure he had been with other girls before me. My husband has cheated on me and has told me that he could even divorce me do to the fact I am not a virgin he would have GODS approval. Does the new testament still go with the old testament on this matter of virginity or did it change too when Jesus hung on the cross too. Sometimes I feel that he feels guilty for cheating and so he’s got to put the blame on me for not being honest with him about who I was with ect I never lied to him about being a virgin he just has a problem with me being with other men even though it’s not been a lot and was before him way before him. The guy that I was involved with found out I was with a new guy and he started calling and doing what ever to make us break up. So please pray for healing for me and him and our marriage.
Thank you
Thersa Martin
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Dear God, I come to you asking you to please heal this hard situation. Mrs Thersa Martin and her husband need healing in their marriage. I ask you to renew their love for each other and please root their love for each other in you. In Jesus’ Holy Name I pray. Amen.