He left me for another woman after 33 years of lies deceit betrayal it was an act. Im having trouble letting go and getting over him as he did me. The Haye he has for me and how he abandoned his grown children when they needed him most. It hurts still. I’ll be divorced 1 year thisonth bit this split started 4 years ago why can’t I get over him. He had not admitted there wad someone else he just figures oh she knows I don’t have ro tell her. He’s sneaky he’s an a user and narcissist. I cant tell you when the ladt rime I got a good night’s rest since this all unfolded. I’m done crying for h8m. I’m done wallowing in my previous relationship 40 years ago another who couldn’t tell me the truth. I made sacrifices I’m done