My relationship is collapsing. My job career has ceased to exist. Everything was great when first got married then everything started falling apart. First my job went and I am still struggling to get that going again. Financially my wife is set as for me I am struggling to get back to work. This caused a huge whole in our marriage. We starting to fall apart from one another. Nothing seems to work. I have even requested we get counseling. She refuses to go. We tried a couple years ago and the therapist tapped a nerve and wife not since wanted to go back. Please pray for us. I don’t know what else to do. My wife is so emotionless and depressed. All we do is argue. Everything is about me.