My significant other John seems distracted since he returned from visiting his sister for the first time since their mother’s death. They scattered her ashes and ashes of their grandmother. He doesn’t respond to text messages sent frequently. We also are not spending as much time together. We did not spend any time together last week. Text msgs sent about trying to figure out reason we are not doing things together on his day off are not responded to. Attempts to clarify what his happening with our relationship are unsuccessful. I’m trying decide if I need to stay in same town or relocate to be closer to the rest of my family.