Please pray that God will speak to me when responding to my husband. He has cognitive deficits after being in a coma. He can’t communicate well at all. He will say only a few words to say something that sounds critical. He really is not a good communicator unless he feels like an expert in the subjects. Often lector or forgets to say what he was thinking, using too few words and if he sees my reaction he says he is just making conversation. Many times this is a lecture, bossy, sounds as if I don’t know how to do normal stuff, he is very controlling and doesn’t recognize it. I need to not react and try to find out what he is thinking or feeling first. Thank you