I was victimized by a surgeon in 2017 when he deviated from our specific surgical agreement in an elective surgery. It eww supposed to be minimally invasive as to not affect sexual functionality but after I www asleep he performed a more-invasive and risky procedure that has rendered me sexually dysfunctional while gifting me with chronic pelvic and perineal pain. When comfronted, he then announced he would be closing his practice.
I have sought help from other doctors and therapists who have helped me make minor progress toward restoration but to date, while pain levels have been reduced, sensation and functionality have not. When he chose the invasive approach, he sawed through muscle, nerves and arteries critical to functionally in that area, damaging me mentally, emotionally, physically and financially in the process.
He is free and clear to navigate and damage more men, while I am left alone to try to pick up the pieces as I try to restore my physical relationship with my bride of 37 years.
I’m not sure how much fight I have left to restore the man I was. I’m tired of fighting and cannot see God’s purpose for what I’m going through. I know he has one, and I have to believe that, otherwise I would no longer have hope. I am a changed man for the worse compared to who I was just 4 years ago and I don’t know how to get back.
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