I need prayer for lies exposed, deception revealed. My ex husband has taken one truth about me and built an Empire in Family Court. He has gotten the powers that be in That court, to forget what he is and that he is incompetent and evil and has not visited his children in 6 years.
He has somehow gotten the Law guardian to forget that he is a drug addicted, alcoholic, violent person, by convincing her that my one problem had resurfaced. This law guardian has known us for 9 years and this will be the 3rd time he has fooled her. This always comes to light (we have a very long history in the court system and he uses that we get New judges who do not know us as his tactic and tool..it is called Forum Shopping), but takes months and months of time until each new judge sees the truth. My Child who is 12, almost 13, now resides with him. this Child has been illegally kept from me, against the Order of the Court, but the Court seems to not care about that, which confounds me..he is in contempt of court–I am viewed as a liar and “Not the better parent,” at this time.
this has happened on 3 other occasions (although we have had many more than 3 custody battles..I am always selected as custodial parent, except for 3 times. most times he gets supervised visits because MOST judges see through his nonsense–not THIS time) and the simple truth is that my ex-husband is doing this for 2 reasons: to get out of paying me child support and to make me suffer or to destroy me. I need prayer that the truth be revealed and the deception he has perpetrated in the Court be brought to light. I need prayer that the Lord touch upon the hearts and minds of the powers that be in the Court I am facing, which would be the Judge and the Law Guardian,. I am Sober and am the better parent both by competence and by my incentive, which is solely to help my Child achieve his potential (he is a special needs child) and that his road to becoming a productive member of Society not be interrupted by him having to start over as far as schools, medications, etc…
this child is extremely emotionally disturbed, I believe by being kept from me during the 3 periods of his life spent with his Father (age 1-3, age 5 and now) and needs proper medication (and the changing and trying of different medications, if necessary) until he is reachable through therapy.
in 5 short months, my ex-husband has agreed to simply put my Child away in some residential facility, has allowed his medication to be raised, a medication which we have already had an unsuccessful trial with and which had adverse effects on my Son.
he is not aware of all we have already been through, since he did not visit or bother with the Children for over 6 years. My Son stands to thus be harmed by this ignorance of the facts and history in his treatment and I have been blotted out of his life an there is an order of protection in the way.
A completely unnecessary order which only stands to harm my Son if left in place. I have possessed multiple orders of protection against this man and I chose not to always violate him, or would still have one; I just wanted to live my life and raise my kids without all that stress of the courts and the police. He seemed as if he was leaving us alone, finally. I did try multiple times to have him at least show interest in my Children, for they felt unwanted. he did not want to bother.. The last order of protection against him was in place for over 5 years.
As soon as it was over, he pounced again in court and will not comply with the order of visitation and I have not seen my Son in over 5 months, now. the one truth about me he uses (used) was that I have a drug history.
He has a drug and alcohol and convictions for both (5 DWIs and a drug conviction) as well as extreme violence and multiple multi state convictions ( I am not the only person who has had him arrested for violence) for that. He still is not sober. These things need to come into the light.