prayer for restored marriage

My heart is heavy and my body is trembling today, sometimes i am a little better today is not good. please lift us up in your prayers. this means so much to me. i have been praying hard and so has everyone else, why is it taking so long for my wifes heart to soften?

when many people are praying for our marriage to be restored and also the perfect will of god is for us to be reconciled. should I (we) be praying and asking in a different way? Spirit