Dear God, please help me save my marriage. My husband is having an affair and has told his mistress he will leave me and our 3 small children. So now she is expecting him to do that. He knows it is the wrong thing to do, he still loves me and wants a life with me and our girls. He does not even think he will be happy with her, but now he has said it she is expecting it and she has a hold over him. I love him deeply and have given him space and time to sort this out for years, he has betrayed me repeatedly. But I refuse to give up on our marriage, it is the right place for us both to be and necessary for our children.