Please pray that the man I love starts responding to me. He is neglecting me

Please pray that the man I love starts responding to me. He is neglecting me. I know our relationship is not ideal and never will be but it is meeting so many of my needs. For 20 years I have been single. Finally I have someone showing interest in me. Please pray that he starts loving me back and invites me to come and spend time with him in his city. Please guide him and encourage him to send me messages every now and then. I am very confused. Why do I always have to initiate the moves? Thank you.