Like everyone my wife and I had a crazy year. It started in summer 2019. Crazy job stress with me. Moved into crazy school stress for her. Then we went right into Covid stuff. With all the stress we lost some of our connection. This year she is away at school for her masters. We’ve had some nasty fights and still we feel fragmented. After 21 years this is still important. I know it’s worth it and what I need to do better. I just need my other half. Thanks.