Dear Lord, my children are bouncing checks and not paying their bills on time or taking care of routine car maintenance. Jr already knows the financial consequence of neglecting car maintenance. Kim is just starting out but it worries me that both can’t live within their paychecks. I didn’t ask Kim to move out she moved out on her own but it’s her upkeep and what she spends her money on before her responsibilities or rent, car, insurance, phone, gas. Jr….he makes good money and still lives at home so his money is being spent on booze, butts and dip.