Help me and Charity

by Phil ()

I made 2 requests of this, the last a month ago. I thank you so much for prayer, I’ve seen results. Charity’s been interested in me for years. A good friend who introduced us in /07 insisted I don’t date her, she liked me more, she fell in love quickly, I respected him. They had flings till /20 when he started a new relationship. She made a son with another guy (who recently made another child with another girl) 5 years ago. She’s periodically shown interest for years. We’ve been moving towards dating since Jan. (my 1st request – Oct./20). In Mar., I made mistakes, she stopped talking, I made a request. I’m her high school sweet heart (I’m 6 years older), I knew she’d come back interested in weeks or a couple months, even if I didn’t ask for prayer. I didn’t want to wait. I made a request, she came back with strong interest in under 2 weeks, prayer helps, thank you. Every time we show new interest, we get closer to each other. She hanged out with me 3 weeks ago at my house just us 2 for 13 hours, she said she wanted to bring her son, she said she wants to be a good friend of my mom, she said she wants my mom to be good friends with her mom, we had such a nice experience. I’m 37, I want marriage, I’m not a virgin. If she was another girl, I would’ve had sex with her then, & we’d be dating. I chose not to. Her main issue prior to 3 weeks ago was me texting her long messages. 3 weeks ago, when together, before we got really cool, she told me she doesn’t want me to send her long messages, I said I won’t. She told me her Dr. told her she has a low white blood cell count, I said I’ll look into natural remedies. She called me babe more than once. The next 2 days, I sent her 3 shorter texts, & then a long 1 on fixing low white blood cell counts. I called her babe quite a bit. She was still showing interest till that last blood cell message. She didn’t like how I called her babe that much. She became silent, I texted longer texts again, she told me not to send long texts, but we still can talk. She has a friend who’s a bad influence who doesn’t like me. Also, I knew her dad died 4 years ago, but didn’t know when. She posted on facebook on Apr. 15th it was 4 years ago from then. The mix of me calling her babe, her mean friend, & the depression caused by remembering her dad’s death caused her to temporarily backtrack. She’s already showing me minor interest. Again, I know if I didn’t make this request, I know she’d come back with new interest in weeks or 2 months. But, I miss her, & I love her, & I know she loves me. The connection I feel to her’s the strongest I’ve felt for any girl, I know she feels the same. Pray for me & her that we start talking & hanging out again soon. When that happens, I won’t call her babe in texts till we date, & won’t send long texts. I know with your help we will date soon, & marry probably in a year.We have a special connection

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