My mother has not accepted the man I chose as my husband since 1989. She has not considered my decision and has not given me my place as a daughter; rather she has treated me like a second class daughter. My husband is from another culture, he is Peruvian and she would have liked it more if he were Cuban, as I am and she is. She has not loved me enough to leave me even a part of the inheritance, however small, but she did not include me or my son. My husband says that this is mean and that he doesn’t want to see or visit her anymore. He doesn’t allow me to visit her because if I di, he said I would be and look stupid, to show her love when she behaves like if she hates me. He says he’s never seen anything like that. Pray for this to change, that she fixes this, so that peace returns between all of us and that I could be happy, being able to see my mother. Now I’m very discouraged and unhappy. My husband doesn’t seem to have the fruit of the spirit or the agape love. He doesn’t model Christ to unsaved family members, even though my mother could be wrong in her actions. He said that if I visit her or tell her that I love her, I might cause him to stop loving me .