My husband has taken a horrible disliking to our daughter’s boyfriend. My husband is disrespectful in the way he speaks about the guy and insinuates my daughter is settling if she accepts him. The guy has done some things wrong but my daughter has forgiven him. Why do fathers think they can give ultimatums and expect their adult child will accept their advice. I say that if God can forgive us, who am I to judge a person and not give them forgiveness. This situation is tearing my family apart. Please pray for family unity and that God can heal this terrible rift. I’m not sure our marriage can stand this pressure.