I pray for enlightenment for my husband whose changing his behavior like a kid with his difficult ways and not accommodating. Very selfish in his ways, wants to isolate and says he only wants to enjoy his life now that he is a senior citizen in his old age. He says “ am not going to be your slave for remaining of my life, I do as I please; sometimes I want my own time being alone or being with whoever I decide. I decide who are my friends and associates not you; I decide what to eat not you, I decide how to live not you”.