I pray that my husband find enlightenment for his own happiness. He runs away and stays away in the night cuz he says he wants his own peace plus the effect of his old age, He doesn’t want to come home. He seems not to understand himself. There are two conflicting sides of his character that he wants to deal with. His emotions are tearing him apart. I ask guidance so he can be guided in the right direction. He says that at this senior age he wants to enjoy his life. It seems that he is gearing towards the wrong advices and he doesn’t want any advice from me. He takes it that I’m controlling and criticizing him. He has the narcissistic character.