Lord God Almighty, I ask you to speak through the noise of my own thoughts and emotions that keep shouting negativity and destructive curses over my wife and my marriage. I confess and agree with you, Lord, that you ordained marriage and that your will is to bless my marriage.
I confess my reactions to being hurt have been to be hurtful to my wife and I acknowledge that that is sin. I ask your forgiveness. Please give me a new heart, a heart that is for her, not against her. In the name of Jesus I speak life into my marriage as Ezekiel prophecied to the dry bones. In the name of Jesus I speak healing into her hurts and her fears. I declare, in Jesus name, that this is the day that the Lord has made and that from this day forward I will love my wife as Christ loves the Church and I receive from you, Almighty God, all the power of heaven to make this declaration a reality.