I have been with my boyfriend for a long time. He has always wanted to marry until recently and now he is unsure. I want a strong commited relationship where I feel that I am put first and I want to put him first. I feel lonely and I want him to give him self to me again completely and not be influenced by outside forces. Please help him see his unhappiness is from his lack of commitment. Help us to grow together and to know we are there for one another.